Pacifier, The Judgement
This 2005 family comedy follows the life of Navy Seal Shane Wolf, played by Vin Diesel. After the murder of a fellow agent he was assigned to protect, Shane is given a new task: to protect the deceased man’s five children.
This movie is a hilarious yet emotionally gripping film, as it captures some of the genuine struggles of both adolescence and parenting.
One theme that sticks out in this film is judgment. This circles around the oldest boy of the family, Seth. In once particular scene, the school principal asks to meet with Shane. She voices concerns about Seth because of various suspicious occurrences that have surrounded him, all seeming to point to the thought that he is part of some Nazi cult following. She lists some of the things Seth has done – things like bleaching his hair and bearing a swastika symbol in his locker.
Shane dismisses the odd signs, but promises to confront Seth later. When that time comes, Seth is dismissive and vague – he seems very uncomfortable. The facts seem to point to his guilt, but eventually the truth comes out when Shane follows Seth after he runs away from home. Shane discovers that Seth is a part of the school musical – “The Sound of Music” – and is playing the part of the young Nazi officer Rolfe.
The circumstances surrounding Seth were pretty suspicious, but in reality, he was just embarrassed about his involvement in the musical.
Let’s discuss this:
- What did the principal and Vice Principal Murney accuse Seth of? Why?
- Has anyone ever accused you of something that you didn’t do? How did it make you feel?
- Do you ever remember making a wrong judgment about someone else? Share what you did.
- Read the following passage from Romans 2:1-3 (NIV)
“You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.  Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth.  So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment?”
- The passage is clear that we shouldn’t judge others because the fact is – we aren’t perfect ourselves. Think about that for a second. It’s a fact that nobody’s perfect – so think about something that you have done recently that you wouldn’t really want the world knowing about. Would you rather be judged for that, or forgiven for that?
- Jesus provides a perfect model for how we can react in moments where it might be easy for us to judge others.
- Read this passage from Luke 19:1-10 (NIV)
“Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through.  A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy.  He wanted to see who Jesus was, but being a short man he could not, because of the crowd.  So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way.  When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today.”  So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly.  All the people saw this and began to mutter, “He has gone to be the guest of a ‘sinner.’ ”  But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.”  Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too, is a son of Abraham.  For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost.”
- Was Zacchaeus a popular guy? Why not?
- Did Jesus judge Zacchaeus? What did He do instead?
- How did Zacchaeus respond to that kind of grace/love instead of judgment?
- Is there someone you are guilty of passing judgment on (others who party, people who dress a certain way, etc. . . .)?
- What can you do to change your outlook on this person? What you can say to that person or do instead of judging them?
Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for parents on his website TheSource4Parents.com. Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.